What to do with chapter eight of the Song? It’s lack of flow
in our Bibles is not cleared up by going back to the original language. Jenson
says it appears as either ‘a repository of an editors frustration,’ somewhere
to place all the left over parts of poetry that fits or ‘that they are dialogue
for a drama or liturgy.’ He goes with the former idea, but whichever it is, it
does not unduly effect our reading of these two verses, regarded as the climax
of the Song.
Poem and Man
The woman requests to be the ‘seal’ of her lover. In our day
of writing and typing we’ve lost some of the significance of what this means.
In the days when all handwriting looked more or less the same, a mans seal was
the sure mark of his identity. No one could be sure he was who he said he was
without his seal. This is no simile, the woman wants to be the seal of the man,
she wants to be intrinsic to his identity. She wants them to be ‘one flesh.’
But how can this be a reasonable, or even realistic request, how can one person
be indispensible to the very identity of another?
The end of verse 6 and 7 give the womans reason. These are
classic Hebrew prose that could be lifted straight from the Psalms or the
Proverbs. Strong and fierce go together, as do death and grave. What about
jealousy and love though? Is love jealous? You’d better believe that real love
is jealous. I, the LORD your God am a jealous God. (Ex 20:5)
Death is absolute. It can not be negotiated with, and takes
a man when it pleases. So too love, argues our woman. Her claim of love, her
claim of ‘sealship’ is not up for discussion. The grave is fierce and will not
give up those whom it claims, so too jealous love. All this merely explains the
woman’s claim it doesn’t justify it. We know that love, no matter how strong,
loses to death in the end. The woman’s claims only make sense if, in some way,
love can defeat death. Only! Her claims are too audacious to be merely human,
the scope of the poet is too broad to be captured by a man and a woman. Here
the poet sees a love that will overcome death. Not a human love, a love deeper,
wider, fiercer and more jealous than death. The poet talks about a love that
can not be undone by either death, or natural disaster or finances. We know from bitter experience that this
can’t be a human love. This claim to love is too much to be human, as is the
love that is the foundation for the whole song. Again, any human application
hangs on the divine.
God and Man
Jenson suggests that a second look at the Hebrews yields the
intended allegory for these verses. Death is not only the taker of life, but
also the proper name for the Canaanite God that Baal, the fertility god battles
with. Sheol is grave, but also the catch all name for the Judaic underworld.
Flame is also the name of the Canaanite god of pestilence. Love is the flame of
flames, which this god is not. The ‘many waters’ that do not defeat love are
another reminder of the Jews’ relationship with the sea, a place of chaos and
carnage. Simply, verse 6 and 7 take us back into the battle between the LORD
and the false gods of Canaan.
The love these verses speak of can only be the victorious
love of Israel’s God. The woman as Israel says here ‘we can not be separated by
death or disaster because of your love, which is better than that of the false
god’s.’ The fact that jealous love defeats death is central to the Old
Testament. Jealous is a personal name of God (Ex 34:14). We may not like the
idea of a jealous God, but the fact is that our salvation and sanctification
relies on it. Here we celebrate God’s victory over the false god’s of the nations:
death, disaster, chaos and material gain.
Our thoughts must naturally be drawn to the resurrection.
Here a jealous God walks out of the grave for us all, here we become His seal.
Jesus died for us, we rise with Him, in fact He can not complete the final
resurrection without us! Bernard of Clairvaux says ‘He loved us before we
existed, and went beyond that to love us when we resisted.’ Jesus will not
share us with any other god, we are His seal and He will jealously defend us.
This is utterly wonderful isn’t it? The climax of the Song
is the climax of the passion. Jealous love conquers the grave for His bride,
who becomes an eternal part of who He is. See, yet again, the depth of Christ’s
love for the Church, see again the depths of His commitment to His bride.
Rejoice and bathe, Christian, in the love that God has for us, a love not to be
overcome by disaster or even death. A lover who will not watch us go into the
night. Compare this with Liberal love, a love that has God letting us go. No
thank you, give me the jealous love that keeps me. Give me the jealous God of
the Bible.
Woman and Man
What more can be said? We must compare the two types of
human love, giving, and desire. The two types of love that found the Song, and
indeed the Bible. Love is giving, but whatever we give to our lover, we are the greatest gift, as God is the Gospel. Love is rioted in desire, but the only
way we do not consume our lover is to plug into the story of the Gospel.
If it were not for Christ’s death on the cross, we might be
well advised to steer clear of love. Love will causes us to give ourselves away
and cause us to consume another, antithetical to a post modern way of thinking.
We remember Christ’s love. At the cross we see Christ’s gift and desire leading
us into the grave and out again. On the first Easter we see jealous love,
giving love and desiring love working in perfect harmony. The passion means we
can risk giving ourselves to our lover and taking them wholly for ourselves.
Here we meet death, but only death as the portal to new life. Where ever love
occurs, it only occurs because our Trinitarian God and His love for sinners
makes it possible. With that knowledge we can sing the Song and joyfully give
ourselves to another, making another a part of who we are, safe in the
knowledge that all we are doing is following in the footsteps of the One who
has rescued us to life, through exactly this kind of death.
There is much richness here isn’t there? Good, deep,
physical, Gospel love flows though these verses. This beautiful picture of
human love is only possible because of God’s love for sinners. The human
application is only possible because of the Christocentric one. In that we
rejoice and love. Human love will sometimes scare us, often times swallow us
whole, but that’s ok. It’s just an echo of the God who was swallowed whole by
love, only to begin the wedding preparations three days later.